This week begins Advent for Everyone, our December exploration of hope, peace, joy, and love. The first week’s focus, Watching for Light, examines what it means to wait with patience when we cannot see what’s ahead. Today’s poem slows down the simple act of lighting the first Advent candle, finding in its small flame the practice of hope itself.
🎧 Hear the poem aloud or read at your own pace—whichever speaks to you today.
First Flame
By Scott Tilley
The room holds its breath
in the last hour before dawn,
darkness still complete.
I find the matchbox
by feel, the small rattle
of sticks against cardboard.
One strike. The head flares,
sulfur sharp in my nose,
a tiny sun in my hand.
I touch fire to wick
and wait for the moment
when flame decides to stay.
It catches. It holds.
The wax begins to soften,
the room begins to shift.
One window of light
where there was none before.
The dark does not leave,
but something has changed.
I am no longer only waiting.
I am tending what I lit.🪞 Poet’s Note
Advent begins in darkness, which is the point. We do not light candles because the room is already bright. The first flame is small, almost absurd against December’s long nights. It changes nothing about the hour or the season. It changes only this: now there is something to watch, something to tend. Hope works the same way. We do not wait passively for dawn. We strike the match.
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